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"I wish I had treasured the doing a little more and the getting it done a little less."
"Normal day, let me be aware of the treasured day you are. Let me learn from you, love you, bless you before you depart...let me hold you while I may."

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Wednesday, September 30, 2009

WFMW-Successfully Selling Kids' Clothes on Craigslist

If you're like me, you ignored everyone's advice to shop consignment when you had your first baby. I scoffed at the idea of putting my precious first-born in USED clothing. Now I get mouth sweats looking at all the money I spent on brand new clothes that were barely worn. I am trying very hard not to make the same mistake with this baby--but it is even harder to resist GIRL clothes!

In order to make a decent return on the "investment" I made in those adorable clothes for Brax, I turned to Craigslist (instead of selling them for pennies on the dollar in a garage sale, or taking a fraction of the profits from selling them to a consignment store).


For this week's Works For Me Wednesday post over at We Are THAT Family, I will share with you my step-by-step "secrets" for recouping some of your cost by using Craigslist to sell your child's outgrown clothing.


1. What You'll Need:

Buy several 20 gallon Rubbermaid totes--one for each size lot. (0-3 months, 3-6, 6-9, 12-18, 18-24, etc.) At about $8 a piece, this will cost you a bit up front, but it goes without saying that you can ALWAYS use Rubbermaid totes for storing something later!

Buy a tagging gun, attachment tags, and price tags. I bought mine from this website--they are out of KC, but will ship anywhere. This cost me about $25 total. Again, it's something you can use for years of reselling!


2. Organizing and Tagging:

Separate your child's clothing by size into each tote. If you have both boy and girl things, separate those as well. Take out clothes that are visibly worn (holes/tears) or stained. Donate them to charity! They are not worth your time in trying to sell them.

Using your fun new tagging gun, attach price tags to each item. Tedious, yes--but I promise, it pays off! After you have tagged everything, price each item. ***If you're lucky, you have a husband who is willing to help you with this project. Make him tag while you price.***


3. Pricing:

This one can be tough. If you sit and stew over how much you think something is worth, you will end up overpricing things. You have to be objective--price things at what YOU would be willing to pay for resale.


Well-known name brands like Gap, Gymboree, Children's Place, Ralph Lauren, Janie and Jack, etc. will draw more money than Wal-Mart's Garanimals or Target's Circo brands, but keep in mind that uber-expensive "boutique" brands may not. Most people who shop CL have never heard of Haute Baby, Za Za Couture or Kate Mack, and they don't care if you paid $30 for that t-shirt. (To be honest, I had never heard of those brands either until I googled "designer baby clothes" just so I could put that tip in this post! I mean really, who spends that much on baby clothes?????)


Sample pricing for typical brands like Carter's, Old Navy, Koala Baby (from Babies R Us), Osh Kosh, Nike, Adidas, Puma:

***All items should be laundered, stain-free, and not overly worn!!!***

Jeans=$4-5
Sweats=$1-3
Shorts=$1-3
Long sleeved/short sleeved T's=$2-3
Sleeveless shirts=$1-2
2 piece outfits=$4-6
Footed jammies=$3
2 piece jammie sets=$2-3
Rompers=$2
Sweaters=$4-5
Button-up collared shirts=$3
Polo shirts=$2-3
Casual dresses=$4
Dressy dresses=$7-8
2 piece athletic track suits=$7-8


4. Taking Pictures:

***This is the most important step!! Don't skip it!***

First, go to Photobucket.com and create a free account. It's quick and painless, I promise.


Then it's time for a photo shoot. To keep this fairly simple, I recommend photographing and posting just one lot at a time, from start to finish. Otherwise you will get overwhelmed.


Lay things out on a flat, light, solid colored surface (I laid ours on our off-white carpet, but you could lay out a white sheet). Group items by type--jammies, long sleeved t's, jeans, sweats, rompers, etc. Fold things nicely, make them look appealing!


Take a picture of each group, then download to your computer. I make a folder in "My Pictures" called "For Sale" so I know exactly where to find them. I also make sub-folders titled by size.


Upload the pics to your Photobucket site. Organize them in folders by size lot. Once you have the pictures on Photobucket, they will be given URL links and HTML codes. This important to note for when it's time to make your CL posting.


5. Posting:

If you don't already have a Craigslist account, create one. Also free, quick and painless.

If you don't know how to use Craigslist yet, figure that one out on your own. Then come back here when you're ready to list!

Create a separate ad for each size lot. Always include the size, gender, and season in the title. An example title would be: "3-6 Month Boy Fall/Winter Clothing." I don't enter a price, since everything is marked individually. In the body of the ad, I say something like this:

"This lot includes:

(I list everything in each photo--for example: 9 pair of sweat pants, 12 long sleeved t-shirts, 3 pair of jeans, 4 button up collared shirts, 8 sets of jammies, etc.)

These items are in [fill in the blank] condition. They are from a smoke-free/pet-free home [if this is true!].

Search [your name here] in "baby/kid stuff" to see all my other listings!

[your name here again]"

I always include the part about searching my name within baby/kid stuff because you never know what else someone might want once they see everything. Obviously, don't put your FULL name here, I just use "Val." You could even use initials or some other code, it just needs to be part of all your ads so the search engine will find them.

6. Managing Emails/Setting Appointments:

Check emails daily, and create a folder in your email specifically for all CL related correspondence. Reply immediately, otherwise you will get bogged down. Many people will email you asking about a few items in particular--how much, do you still have it, etc. I do not go digging through bins every time I get a request for certain items--I let them know that everything is priced from $1-8 dollars (more for multiple pieced sets) and I simply suggest that people come and "shop" through everything. Of course, if I know something has sold I will let them know. If I have someone come and buy the majority of a lot, I will update the ad on CL. Once the entire lot is sold, don't forget to delete the ad!

As for setting appointments, please use your best judgement regarding safety! I never give out my address without speaking to the person on the phone (and keeping track of their phone #'s) first. In the beginning, I always made appointments for people to "shop" at our house when my husband would be home, but I have to admit that I have become a little lax when it comes to this. I have NEVER had anyone remotely "weird" or "scary" come shop--just normal moms like myself--but that's not to say that people like that aren't out there. So like I said, use your best judgement. If you live in a remote or "rough" neighborhood, you could always meet people in the parking lot of a Target or Wal-Mart.

Tips for "shopping" appointments:

Only get out one size lot a time for your shoppers to go through, so they don't get sizes mixed up.

Keep plenty of small bills on hand to make change for people.

Be prepared to entertain your shopper's small child should she bring them with! The less she has to chase her kid around your house, the more she can focus on buying your stuff. Fortunately, Brax loves when other kids come over, and he is more than eager to play with them while their moms shop!

All of this may sound daunting at first, but I promise, the payoff is worth it! To date, I have made approximately $600 dollars on Brax's clothes and nursery room decor, and I have about $350 worth of clothing left to sell.

Good luck!

Friday, September 25, 2009

2 Yr/2 Mo Stats and Braxisms

HEIGHT/WEIGHT/TOOTH COUNT: 36 inches, 30 lbs, 16 teeth.

NEW TRICKS:

  • He's been in his big boy bed for a month now, and hasn't gotten out once! It seems like he falls asleep more quickly and quietly and stays asleep longer in it than he did in his crib.
  • Has many of his favorite books partially memorized and will help me "read" them. I will pause at certain points on each page and he fills in the word!
  • Skips, walks backwards, jumps and lands on both feet, starting to understand the concept of pedaling on his tricycle.
  • Lines up magnets and other toys in a straight line.
  • Puts his toys away without being asked (most of the time).
  • Covers his mouth with his elbow when he coughs or sneezes (most of the time).
  • Accurately hits off his baseball tee.
  • Loves to lay on the floor and toss his football up in the air to try and catch it (Daddy does this all the time).
  • Can count to 11.


FAVORITE FOODS: Teddy Grahams (thanks to Noah!)

FAVORITE BOOKS: Any of his Thomas books

FAVORITE TOYS/ACTIVITIES: Anything Thomas (I try to control this addiction, but I hear it's pretty common for little boys!), and his doctor kit, especially the mirror and the syringes. Likes to "pretend." Loves cutting with his safety scissors.

DAILY ROUTINE: Same as before, but now goes to preschool on Monday mornings. We've also started doing Lil' Kickers, an indoor toddler soccer class, on Saturdays. Aunt Laura takes him to storytime at the library once a week, as well as two local playgroups. We trying to get him out and about and provide opportunities for more "socialization" with other kids.

FAVORITE SONGS: B-I-N-G-O

DISLIKES: Has actually been pretty agreeable this past month! We've been trying to give him choices about things (what to eat, wear, play with, activities, etc.), and it really seems to keep him from getting mad and frustrated.

BRAXISMS:

  • He wanted to "jump to me" from the top of the stairs. I reminded him that we don't jump down stairs, we walk carefully. He shook his head and said, "DADDY lets me jump down the stairs, Mommy." (He doesn't, of course.)
  • If we tell him to stop doing something he shouldn't be doing (like blowing spit bubbles) he says, "I having fun!" (Like that will convince us that it's okay for him to continue doing it.)
  • When Aunt Laura leaves for the day, Brax will announce that she is now "going to work." I think it's so cute that he has no clue that HE is her work.
  • Always asks for me to cover him with the "cold side" of his blanket at bedtime. (One side is soft and fuzzy, the other side is silky-that's the "cold side.")
  • If you tell him no, he responds with, "Don't say that!"
  • Sometimes says "doggonnit" when he's frustrated. I suppose that's better than some alternatives....
  • Said "H is for Harper!" I have no idea how he knew that, it actually surprised me!
  • Tells Harper to come out of my belly and play with him.
  • Outside playing on a warm day-he exclaimed, "It's a hundred degrees outside!"
  • In the refridgerated section of the grocery store-he said, "It's FREEZING in here!"
  • I was reminding him of the bedtime rules as I did every night when we first transitioned to his big boy bed (that he must lay down, be quiet and close his eyes)-he says, "I KNOW that, Mommy." I don't have to tell him the rules anymore!
  • One day Laura was getting him up after his nap, he said, "I think I hear something! I think I hear a door!"
  • Laura told him to take one more bite and he could be done eating, he said, "I will choke! No big bite, Laura."
  • Laura couldn't find some of his Thomas train tracks one day and when he sensed her frustration he said, "It's allright, Laura, it's allright."
  • Sat down on the potty with a book and began to "read"--he started with "Once upon a time..."
  • Laura went to put his milk away, he said "Don't put my milk away, I be mad at you!"

Thursday, September 24, 2009

This One's For You, Dad

My dad is always asking me about my lastest home decor updates, so here you go Pops.
(Note my sarcasm. My dad makes fun of me for posting things like this on here.)
But I just love my entry table! I made this little fall arrangement, and I had to show it off. Plus, who doesn't love to stick their hand in a jar of M&M's or candy corn as soon as they walk in the door? Dad, I know you'd appreciate THAT!



I love FALL!

At the Park

Grammy and Pop-Pop stayed last Sunday nite... Grammy had made a great dinner for us when we got home! We took a walk up to the park....


"Thisaway, Grammy!"

Picking at the crabapple things.

He never did actually go down the big slide...



We ran into Ava and her Mommy!

"Give me a hug, sweet thang."

"I can go higher than you, Grammy!"

Aren't grandparents the greatest? I wish all of Brax's grandparents lived HERE!

I Heart St. Louis!

Last weekend Mike and I took a little road trip to St. Louis to visit my college friend Ryan. Grammy and Pop-Pop (Mike's parents) came to stay with Brax! They had such a fun weekend-They went to Brax's first "Lil' Kickers" soccer class, and then to the Apple Festival and Deanna Rose Farmstead. I wish I had more pictures!
While Brax was entertaining Grammy and Pop-Pop, Mike and I enjoyed our weekend getaway. We all went out for Mexican Friday nite, I went shopping at the Galleria on Saturday morning (had to buy my first pair of maternity jeans!) and then we hit the Cards/Cubs game Saturday afternoon. Mike's cousin Koyie (read this story about him severing his fingers) is a catcher for the Cubs, so we had great seats and got to go down by the locker rooms after the game. Koyie also gave us a signed bat for Brax--a much better souvenir than the $12 foam finger. Saturday nite we all went out to a great dinner at Fleming's.
I can't believe these are the only pics I took....





Back at home...
Reading w/ Pop-Pop

BP with Grammy

Blowing bubbles.
Thank you Grammy and Pop-Pop for taking such good care of Brax
so we could enjoy our weekend away!

Wednesday, September 16, 2009

Randoms

This is just a funny pic of Brax's grape juice mustache...


The boys outside playing ball earlier this week...
"Gimme that!"

We ate at Bob Evan's last weekend... they had a balloon maker!
Needless to say, eating was an afterthought for Brax!

Monday, September 14, 2009

Harper's Room-Getting Started

So remember my "inspiration" for Harper's room?
This canvas... (I have 2 of them)



I'm leaning towards painting the walls a really pale lavender,
but I pulled some green swatches just in case. Either way, the walls will be subtle.

I found several fabrics at a place called Home Fabrics. It is the greatest fabric store ever--it's like all overstock warehouse stuff, and everything I found was under $4 a yard!!!!
I'm not OVERLY crazy about plaid, but every color in this one matched the flower picture perfectly. I am still on the hunt for another printed fabric... I'd prefer a stripe.
I need a printed fabric to tie everything together on the bumper, and I'd like to use it for the bottom layer of the crib skirt.

I like this one for the top layer of the crib skirt, and for the bottom layer of the window panels.

The first one here looks kind of rust colored in the picture, but it's really more of a pinky-purple. The lavender and blue fabrics next to it are my favorite--they are thick and really soft. These will be part of the bumper.

These are more options for blocks of fabric on the bumper. I will also use the deep purple one, which has sort of a velour feel, for the top layer of the window panels.

So that's what I have so far...


Brax's Big Boy Room!

We finally got Brax's big boy room all done.
I am just waiting on a little locker-style night stand to come in,
but the rest is done!





The view as you enter the room.





View to the left from doorway.



View to the right.

I think the middle picture is crooked, isn't it??

I'm am so happy with the way his room turned out.
Now I can get going on Harper's nursery!


Saturday, September 12, 2009

Getting The Cast Off



"This won't hurt!"
Lesson #1 for ANY healthcare worker dealing with children:
Don't EVER, EVER say, "This won't hurt!"
It never crossed the kid's mind that it would hurt until you said THAT, dummy.

"Why would you say that, lady? Mommy told me it was like Bob the Builder's tools, and they are fun and cool. But you said it won't hurt. I don't believe you! How do I know you're not lying????!!!! Mommy never said ANYTHING about it hurting!"



"Well, I guess she wasn't lying. It didn't hurt. But dang, my arm smells like something died under there. How did all those skin boogers get up there?"

I was SO happy to wash his little arm! He just wanted to play with his cast.

The picture is fuzzy, but you can see the original x-ray on the left, from the day he broke it. See the bend, about an inch above his wrist? Then on the new x-rays you can see the white calcification at the break point, where the new bone has formed.
The human body is amazing, especially a toddler's!


We Might Have a Lefty

Well, at least he broke his right arm.
It seems that Brax is exclusively proficient at
using his left hand now...
And of course, anyone who knows anything about sports knows that being a lefty is the golden ticket to a college scholarship in baseball!

However, I did point out to Mike
that Brax may choose to use his left hand
to play the guitar,
or draw architectural plans,
or flip burgers....





But for now, he'll use his left hand to practice cutting.

Last Week's Randoms

I guess these are from last week or so...
It's been awhile since I've posted! I'm sure you've missed me, right?


Of all the toys kids have, why do they love the stuff that's NOT meant to be a toy the most?



We drove to my grandma's last weekend...
What did us kids do on road trips before DVD players???

We did have some good old fashioned fun going "fast"
over the hills on the country roads.
Brax would crack up and say, "I LOVE this! I having fun!"


We sported our OU gear last Saturday
in honor of the first game of the season.
Mike says it may be Brax's game day shirt that jinxed
Sam Bradford and the rest of the gimpy OU players.
I don't care though, he looked cute.

Friday, September 4, 2009

I've Been Saving These...

I found these a few weeks ago at Marshall's HomeGoods store, and couldn't stop myself from grabbing them up! Stuff goes fast there! I just love the color of purple in them, and these will be the "inspiration" for our baby girl's room. Now that I know FOR SURE that this baby is a girl, I can go buy fabric for her bedding and curtains!!!!!!!!



Rewind-Last Wkend




"What Mom? Did you say no running or yelling on the golf course?
You'll have to speak into my good ear."




As you can see, Brax is becoming a Daddy's Boy every day....